If conversations are dead and there is no hope to revive the conversation, be bold and swing for the fences. Find a purpose, reason to start it – something timely, relevant but ideally unique. Timing matters, context is key.
Some people hate texting, are forgetful or just want to meet in person asap rather than engage in meaningless texts. Be flirty, be forward but be respectful. Randomness, weird observations can sometimes do the trick.
Some guys start off strong and then slowly fade away. It’s not uncommon for guys to swipe right on every girl and then focus on ones they are most interested in, ones that are mostly likely to hook up with or ones that are most interested in meeting up sooner than later. It’s just one of those harsh realities of online dating.
Your intent with conversation should not be to figure out if he is the one. Your focus should be on qualifying him and seeing if he is worth your time for one date – nothing more.
All too often women try to change a man or try to win him over when he has done zero to reciprocate that same effort, enthusiasm, responsiveness, etiquette and commitment. (tovább…)